Today is a bad day....

how do people find hope? what makes a person able to get up every day and just ignore whatever they are going through? Maybe most people just never hurt.... you have to really care and give of yourself to really hurt, so maybe most just don't go that far and that is how they wake up as if nothing ever happened.
But even more than that, how do you just not miss someone? Even if they drove you crazy, when someone is in your life every day for years, how do you NOT feel that absence at all?

I wish I was one of those people.......